Monday, March 30, 2009

April's Fool

ooh, i remember this one.

April child he was and a damned fool too.

One trip to SA and he was feeling like a "G"

Gosh, the worlds original Fool.

Thursday, March 5, 2009

New Month, New Man?

Stepping into a new month, i set goals, targets...i usually scribble it on post-its or type it in note-pad. i actually typed it in note-pad this time around and next thing i know, a list of seven had become ten. What? who added three more goals for me. . .i had to laugh.
8, Get rid of Ex-Boyfriends pictures
9, Delete Ex-Boyfriends texts
10, A Man!

Ok.. .i could guess who had put this in,lol, but i began to think of it. I have never once set out to "find a man" i just seem to happen upon them, and now that i even decided to go on a "Man-Diet" i seem to be more desirable.

8, Pictures. . .

I love pictures and all the dudes i have gone out with are very cute, so i have their pics on my computer and a few printed ones. The first time Libby, my Afro-Asian friend spied my collection, she became all so serious, You have to throw them out..how will you ever get a serious relationship hugging all these pictures!!!

I didnt take her advice, i just believe pictures are just what they are, pictures! nothing more to it. i dont fantasize or daydream about them. Maybe when i get a very convincing argument on throwing them or deleting them, i would do that, for now, they are gonna be there :)

9, Texts. . .

Well, i really should delete this, i intend to get a new phone, so when i do, id just transfer relevant numbers and begin to use it but i may just keep that old phone somewhere without deleting anything. . .i love having evidence..lol!

10, Man...

The town, im currently in, seems to have a large supply of Corpers and Married men, none that i would date. the married men even let you know they are married and would answer any and every question you pose concerning their marriage, leaving nothing out. yet they wouldnt hesitate to tell you how, beautiful your eyes are, how much your lips are calling them and many funny "poetic" descriptions of body parts you don't even pay attention to. The corpers, these ones always want to know where you are working, how much you earn. .and some stuff, i dont want to mention.

Anyway!

I wouldn't lie and say im totally loving my singleness, but i have promised myself this rein.

I have had a few dinners and dates here and there, my boss, my boss's friends, business partners, and quite a number of random guys, even the guy next door who seems to be married, ok..he has a son but i never saw any woman there. . .

I want a Man of course!! but im tired of feeling desperate, id rather wait now, its freaking hard o! but i have been clean for two months now.

Lets see how this thang goes...........